Saturday, December 18, 2010
The Holidays
Hmm, how to survive a sociopath at Christmas time? That can be very tricky and it's not easy. Remember, it's all about them and their feelings. So, how do you get through this time of year? I found it liking walking on egg shells and very carefully looking for reactions to my actions. This let me gauge the sense of each day. If you are in this situation, I feel for, as I was once there.
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This documentary film about these creatures will help you: http://www.fisheadmovie.com/videoclips
Yes. My husbands ex wife is a sociopath. And even tho divorced for 7 years she insist we all must spend Xmas together. For the kids sake. It's all about control. She even wants my husband to come to her home with her new husband there on Xmas morning and put kids Xmas gifts together. I had to set boundaries with her. She was dictating our life. 70+ text messages to my husband a day. Non stop calling him, telling him how lousy of a father he is. I had to block her number. But sociopaths will find a way. Well she did not like that I came in and stopped her control of him, and stopped her getting money that wasn't even used on kids, and I set boundaries. Because I saw straight thru her. She abused my husband and he was so emotionally beaten down he couldn't stand up to her. But I could. And I still do. Well at first I just thought she was insane. But when I became her victim I realized I was dealing with a much darker calculated person. Evil. It's still going on. Drama stress. Don't know if it will end. But one thing is that she may have primary custody of kids but she does not have control of my husband. And with kids the court orders say custody is 50/50. So if she deprives my husband we will hold her in contempt of the court. She has no money for an attorney. She is at the lowest point in her life. Sociopaths will self destruct eventually. We have the money. We call the Shots. It took my husband a long time to understsnd that. She use to make him feel guilty. And Now there is nothing she can say to guilt him. Or even Anger Him. Cuz evey word she says is literlly a Lie. Stay strong and remember that sociopath are predictable, tho there tactics may vary. They usually stick to same method of how they mess with you...
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