Monday, May 21, 2007

Harmless????

Moving from the idle conversation, or what I thought was idle, was the need to suck the life out of me inorder to create or mold me into something that would benefit him. This takes quite some time, but does happen all the time with a sociopath. I would offer to do things for him, take care of little things that were huge deals for him, and nothing for me. Like a phone call to someone who he did not know. This was a little strange. He did not want to encounter anyone who he was uncomfortable with. I wrote this off as shy, but it's really a control thing. If a sociopath knows you, and knows your buttons, then he calls the shots with the conversation and the games he can play. I was unaware of this trait.

Sunday, May 20, 2007

Premier Post

Where does this all begin? 5 years ago, coming out of a horrible relationship, I was seduced by a close friend into a relationship that was for his service only. I knew this person as a friend, or so I thought. He was illusive and very shy. He was quiet, smart and could engage in conversation in just about any topic. I was quickly impressed with his past and his talents. He was equally impressed with my career and accomplishments. At least that's what he told me.



Seems pretty harmless? It was. Pretty straightforward, it was on the surface. Little did I know that this person was addicted to porn and performed background checks on all of his friends and family. Yes, he was talking to me and engaging in conversation about my past, which he was obsessed with, with reference to the conversation. He was so good at it, such a con artist, that I could not pick up on it. I had no reason, at that time, to think anything except that this person was very interested in me and my life. How wrong I was and the cost it would take is something that anyone who can, should avoid. Male and female alike.



I will update every couple of days until the story is told. Please add your comments as the story unfolds. You may have similar circumstances or questions about my situations that affect yours.